Good morning my good people. I hope everyone is enjoying this great summer weather or cooling off because it has been hotter than funion breath so far in some places. But that just allows for the creative juices of us gentleman to marinate when taking our queens out for a summer evening. Yep, summer time is not a break from men being gentlemen. Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s just on life support right now because both genders are a little unclear on the subject.
Now brethren, we have got to do better in the department of treating our women how they deserve to be cared after. Men the rules of being a man is plain and simple. 1 be accountable and 2 be a provider. I don’t think you can truly be a man if you’re not these two things. And if you claim to be a man but you’re not chivalrous somewhere in between adolescence and manhood you became lost. If that’s the case you need to start over from scratch.
The term chivalry encompasses so much, but it goes unnoticed to the naked eye. Let’s think about it for a second. When a gentleman approaches a lady he does so in a respectful manner. He does not grab, touch, hoot or holler. He asks a lady out and pays the tab. He compliments her beauty and her being. When going out he opens doors and is a protective figure. The fact of the matter is a gentleman always makes sure that a woman is taken care of from all angles
If you feel as a man that every time you take a woman on a date you have to ask her how much her entree’ cost you need not to go on dates. I am just being honest. Guys just because you pay for a lady’s dinner doesn’t mean that you’re tricking off, if you date with a purpose you wouldn’t feel that way. And gentleman never feel like they’re owed anything because they paid for a measly meal.
Woman chivalry is a concept that is truly a lifestyle in which one is raised. Don’t think for one second that you’re going to be treated nicely by all guys, that’s just not going to happen. Don’t expect a man to pay for everything just because he’s a man. A man is not an automatic teller machine. If you don’t see anything in him don’t keep milking him because he’s a gentleman and always pays. You’re only making more guys feel as though being a gentleman is for suckas and being chivalrous only leads to women getting free meals and dates out the deal. Know that you deserve the best treatment, but also know that its not a free buffet just because you’re a woman.
THINK TANK signing off until next time…
well said.